My Top 10 New Year Femme Lesbian Resolutions
A year has gone and a new one has begun, everyone is sitting down to write their resolutions or least, a list of things they’d like to change. We all have things we’re looking forward to whether it’s a new love, better relationships or a lifelong partner. The gals at Pink Lobster Dating are no exception to this and that is why I’ve put together a simple list of dating resolutions for 2016.
1. Stop being afraid of your sexuality.
It’s the glorious 2016 and whilst some people still think women like lesbians and bisexuals are aliens from an ancient planet, it’s time we stop worrying about how others see our sexuality. You know yourself and what you like, not others. Don’t be afraid of being you, your future girlfriend will love you for it.
2. Forget the stereotypes, be you!
Femmes are often mistaken as heterosexuals simply because they embrace their femininity strongly; bisexuals aren’t real and lesbians are just man-haters or man-wannabes. It’s a tough world out there and it gets tougher when more and more morons keep procreating. That’s why it’s best to ignore all these stereotypes, don’t allow yourself to be defined by them, break free!
3. Be open to try new things in your relationships.
New Year, new you? We hope so! Try new things in your current relationship or your future ones. That means, go out to new spots, hangouts and change up your routine from time to time. (Also, go ahead and throw in some new positions, wink-wink.)
4. Meet new people.
Make new friends with whom you can relate. Whether they share your interests or they’re almost 100% different from you, it’s good to expand your horizons and the number of people you know in your life. Creating a profile here at Pink Lobster Dating could help you to meet women with similar interests to yours. Even if it’s just to have fun or you end up falling in love.
5. Don’t be scared of love:
If you got hurt or broke up during 2015 or even before that and you somehow are now afraid of getting hurt again, don’t close yourself to the notion or the idea of finding love again. You never know when you will meet someone you’ll love more than a brownie with a cup of milk, but when you do, make sure your heart is ready to accept them.
6. Give yourself time:
It’s simple, don’t rush into any type of relationship simply because you’ve finally found someone. All good orgasms come to those who wait. I mean, things. Good things.
7. Educate your family, friends and strangers:
Don’t let them impose their ideas of your sexuality on you, educate them about you and who you really are. Stop them before they even get the chance to get on your nerves with their usual comments.
8. Let go:
If you had a nasty break up, a crush that never noticed you or a friendship that grew apart - let it all go. Live in the now, however lonely it maybe at first, it will get better eventually and it all starts when you get ready to get over it and let go.
9. Steer clear from the heterosexuals:
This is no joke, girlfriends, steer clear from those hot and wonderful heterosexual girls that say “I love you…No homo tho.” They will break your heart.
10. Go out more often.
First dates, blind dates, double dates or no dates at all. Do it! GET. OUT. THERE. Also, if you haven’t already, create your profile at Pink Lobster Dating, upload three gorgeous pictures of your-bombshell-self (three types of photos: femme, formal and fun) and meet new people to GO OUT WITH.